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al-Harith ibn Abi Dirar — The Banu Mustaliq Chief Who Fought at Muraysi', Was Defeated, and Whose Daughter Juwayriya Became the Mother of Believers: A Tribal Conversion Story With Empire-Scale Consequences

الحَارِثُ بنُ أَبِي ضِرَار — رَئِيسُ بَنِي المُصطَلَقِ الَّذِي حَارَبَ فِي المُرَيسِيعِ وَهُزِمَ وَابنَتُهُ جُوَيرِيَّةُ أَصبَحَت أُمَّ المُؤمِنِين: قِصَّةُ إِسلَامِ قَبِيلَةٍ لَهَا عَوَاقِبُ بَالِغَةُ الأَثَر
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al-Harith ibn Abi Dirar al-Khuza'i (الحَارِثُ بنُ أَبِي ضِرَارٍ الخُزَاعِيّ; leader of the Banu Mustaliq sub-tribe of Khuza'a; the principal figure of the Battle of al-Muraysi' [also called Ghazwat Bani Mustaliq, 5 or 6 AH]; led his tribe against the Muslim community after reports of hostile preparations against Medina; defeated in the battle; his daughter Barra bint al-Harith was captured and eventually entered the Prophet's household as Juwayriya bint al-Harith [one of the Mothers of Believers]; al-Harith subsequently embraced Islam and became a Companion; his conversion and that of many Banu Mustaliq tribespeople was facilitated by the Prophet's marriage to his daughter) is a figure whose story illustrates how Prophetic marriage functioned as a diplomatic institution.

The Battle of al-Muraysi’

Reports reached Medina in 5 or 6 AH that al-Harith ibn Abi Dirar was gathering his Banu Mustaliq tribesmen and rallying Arab allies for an attack on Medina. The Prophet moved preemptively: the Muslim army surprised the Banu Mustaliq at the water source of al-Muraysi’ (a desert well in the Hijaz).

The battle was brief. The Banu Mustaliq were defeated; prisoners and livestock were taken. Among those captured was Juwayriya bint al-Harith, the chief’s daughter, who initially fell to the lot of a Companion as a captive.


Juwayriya and the Mass Release

Juwayriya asked the Prophet to help her buy her freedom (kitaba). Instead, the Prophet proposed marriage. She accepted; he paid her ransom and they were married.

The political consequence was immediate: when the Muslims learned the Prophet had married al-Harith’s daughter, they voluntarily released all the Banu Mustaliq prisoners in their care — “they are now the Prophet’s in-laws.” The number of released captives was reportedly around 100 households.

Juwayriya — the Prophet’s wife, Umm al-Mu’minin — said about herself: “I do not know of any woman who was more of a blessing to her people than I was.”


Al-Harith’s Conversion

Al-Harith ibn Abi Dirar came to Medina after the battle to negotiate or ransom his daughter. He converted to Islam during that visit. His conversion, along with the voluntary release of prisoners, and his daughter’s position as Mother of Believers, meant the entire Banu Mustaliq relationship with Medina was transformed from enmity to alliance.

See also: Seerah Umm Haram, Seerah Zainab Bint Ali, Seerah Al Khansa, Abu Bakr Al Siddiq, Seerah Sad Ibn Muadh

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